In times of online dating, speed dating, Tinder and Co., the possibilities of finding the perfect partner have increased rapidly, at least as far as the number of potential partners is concerned. On the other hand, both men and women are more insecure than ever when it comes to the opposite sex, so that many - especially men - no longer want to commit themselves. There are many reasons for this: there could always be someone better, he just doesn't want to grow up or he's already badly damaged. Much to the chagrin of the women, most of whom want a stable, committed relationship - but please keep it exciting and exciting.
So many women constantly bend over backwards in order to still bind their supposed Mister Right to themselves. We researched what men really want — and what qualities in a woman really make them fall in love with them lastingly. Voila!
1. It should be sexy and seductive:
Of course, external attributes such as a great figure (which doesn't always have to mean thin!), beautiful breasts, shiny hair, clear skin and a pretty smile are the first things that men do attracts. Every man would like to adorn himself with an attractive woman. Mother Nature set it up that way, because these attributes mean that the woman can also give birth to healthy offspring. Seen from that perspective, men can't even do anything for that. Many women also stand for broad shoulders, strong hands and musculature because they are unconsciously looking for a good breadwinner and provider. So: take care of yourself, keep your body in shape and dress up a bit if you are looking for a man!
2. It should have a sense of humour:
As the saying goes: "Appearance finds, character binds"! Has the sexiness factor been met? Excellent! If you add a good sense of humor to this, the chances of retaining it are even better. It doesn't matter whether you find Helge Schneider or Mario Barth funny: Being able to laugh about the same things together is incredibly attractive.
3. She should be motherly and warm-hearted:
Yes, admittedly, most men are still looking for a bit of "mama" feeling even when they are long grown up. That doesn't have to make him a mama's boy, but a nice, tidy home, a woman who cooks delicious food for him and listens to his worries without grumbling is the dream of many men. (But she should also be sexy, please!) So, dear women: why not cook his favorite dish for him more often? Even if household chores are shared in modern relationships: Secretly, no man is secretly keen on wiping the dust and washing the dishes himself... A suggested solution: how about a household help? Then she can try her hand at the stove as a sexy cricket without having to constantly clean it, and he'll be happy about it.
4. She should stand on her own two feet:
Sounds paradoxical after the Heimchen am Herd number, but men like women who are self-confident and, above all, independent. A whiny, constantly needy woman is unattractive. Since men love to "hunt", the "prey" should also be worth it and not too easy to get. So: Secure your own livelihood (mostly a matter of course these days anyway) and prove that you can get along just fine on your own. A man can then be the icing on the cake in your wonderful life - but you could also get along well without him. Which doesn't mean that you can't let him spoil you gallantly! Quite a few men these days are a bit unsure about emancipation: “Are they still allowed to invite a woman over and should they even help her into her coat? Many men like to play the gentleman - let him! Because very feminine women don't like uncharming "Can you pay for the next round too?" boys anyway.
Conclusion: Seductive, funny, a bit motherly and independent at the same time: This formula makes you the perfect woman that men fall in love with!
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